I think someone already said this on here...but I think you hurt so much still because you are such a kind, loving person.
You are always reaching out to others on here who are struggling...and it's obvious that you love those around you in your life.
So, of course, it's hard for you to detach! It's because you have such a big heart!
I'm not sure what the answer is as I have been letting my H drag my feelings all over the place this week. Someone once wrote on my thread that it's like you harpooned a whale and are getting drug all over the ocean by it!
The only way is FORWARD...so RL, we'll just keep putting one foot in front of the other...getting stronger each day. And someday, this "detaching" thing will be easier.
