Back....again.

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Well....I think it's finally come to the end and I basically don't think there is anything I can do anymore.

We went away for the weekend and plans were to stay Sunday in the city and shop. He decided to cut it short and come home to go out with his 2 single buddies and watch the Canadian football league final game of the season. I asked if we can come because usually it's equivalent to the Super Bowl. People have house parties! Kids are there. He said no be is going to a pub with them. I got really upset for him making this decision all on his own. Cancelling our family day in he city and we got into a big fight. It's the first time in months I actually showed my anger and didn't sweep it under the rug. And sure enough...huge fight.

He played stubborn and didn't go and stayed home but the second the game was over he left with them and didn't come home till 3 am and didn't answer any of my texts. That was Sunday and be hasn't really talked to me since except last night.

I asked him what was wrong and he said I'm annoying and he doesn't want to be around me or talk to me. I asked him how to fix it and he said he doesn't know if we can and that our marriage is at an all time low. I told him marriages go through ups and downs and you communicate and figure out the problem and make it better. And he he just wouldn't respond. I left the house for a few hours and when I got back be was still livid.

But then all of a sudden he tried his new work uniform on and came upstairs to ask me how it looks. And then asked me a few more questions about my day.

I don't know what to say. I don't know what to do.

And yes TrentC, it does seem like his problems with us are always changing...maybe he is just never gonna be happy in our marriage?

This time his problem is the fact I was upset about him cutting our family weekend short to go drink with his single buddies and leave his family at home.