W texted me yesterday.... "Are you getting a lawyer?" I responded with "I'm at work, we can talk later"
She called last night. Small talk followed by Divorce talk. I told her I was surprised that she wanted to get this done right away. She said she thought that since she told me how she feels, that I would want the same. I told her that she knows how I feel about her, and if that is what she wants, I wouldn't stand in the way. I asked her to really think about. It's only been a few months since we separated. We talked about separation of assets and we are on the same page.
She asked me if it was bothering me that she has been texting and calling. She said she doesn't want to stop communication with me. I told her that I loved speaking with her and texting. I did ask her why she is so interested in me now that she told me that she doesn't want to R. She said I made a comment last week when she let me know that her heart wasn't in it and she couldn't see herself loving me again. I said.... I didn't want to hang up because I didn't know when we would speak again. So, she wants to make sure that I know she wants to have a relationship but a friendship.
I will see a lawyer. Just to make sure I know how this process works and what to expect.
I don't know what my next move is.... I guess GAL. When she reaches out to me, I will be kind and happy to hear from her. Should I ever reach out to her? Or just let her be the one to always initiate contact? And when she does, should I be short or engaging. I want her to miss me, us, our good times. She knows I want a better marriage. Not the one she left. But her heart tells her to move on.
