So, H and I (and kids) had a really good evening. Lots of laughing, joking, fun, etc.
H was actually pretty talkative and smiling, etc.
Then, out of nowhere, in conversation, he said that we needed to come back early from his family's Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow so he can go to "J's" and celebrate Thanksgiving with the "guys". YEAH...WHATEVER!!!!
J is the friend from work that H is always going to his house to watch football games with. So, I had a mental moment and asked him who he is REALLY going to see when he says he with J???
I backslid BADLY! I lost it. Wanted to know who he is really running off to town to see all the time....what is he really doing when he says he is watching football...why would he rather spend Thanksgiving with some guys from work than his own family and kids???? Also, why am I NEVER invited to this guy's house? If there's no OW involved, then why can't I come?
So, I completely ruined a perfectly good evening!
The thing is....I am so TIRED of the LIES! He is obviously NOT just going to hang with the guys...and I am having a really hard time letting it go.
I'd rather just know the TRUTH! He pretends like there is nobody else but he is liar. So, why should I believe him now?
I know I need to just not bring it up anymore and let it go....but it is SO very hard.
