Still having a hard time wrapping my head around this. A few months ago H is calling and texting mid day to tell me he loves me and misses me and "now I am just somebody that he used to know. " someone he won't even say good morning to. How does that happen?
Yes, it is surprising but basically WASs aren't truthful, and I don't say that in an accusatory way, it's just the...well, truth. They weren't showing us their true feelings...and then one day they did. This is a concern of mine right now but I've decided to move forward with confidence because I now know that I will be OK.
Yay, for the AlAnon mtg! Lots of large cities have big meetings on Thanksgiving, Christmas, an NY because of the stress that the holidays bring. Meetings are held in 2-3 different locations going all day long, along with food.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss