Good stuff Portia. I like everything you said to Linda because Linda...it is so true. Pool noodles and all.

FY, I like the way you think about detachment. I think people get very confused on what detaching actually is. Good clarification, imo. thanks.

Linda, you can do this. Just remember to treat yourself really well especially when you feel so down. Do something kind for yourself everyday. You are worth it. You are a remarkably kind and loving women.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.