golf mom, Many of the mlcers have addictions or quirks that we tended to turn a blind eye or they told us it was "nothing". I'm glad you are strong enough to handle the reality of what your h has done over the years. Some of them just never grow up and take on responsibility because they would much rather stay a Peter Pan their entire lives. Addictions are an easy way to escape the normal every day life and yes, a way to escape their pain.
I'm so very proud of you. You have shared so much w/us and I do hope others will take your advice and protect themselves financially. It is important to put your business hat on the minute they drop the bomb.
I do hope that you and your family will have a nice Thanksgiving. Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
