How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Just a really dumb question on my part, because it's just the way I see it. If you liked it a lot one day, why wouldn't you want it just as much the next day? Are you in a state of recovery, being sore, or what? What is there to recharge?

I think it has more to do with tension. And yes, recharging is a great way to put it. One can become desensitized, and then it can be very frustrating.

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When I found a receipt that my H. had bought two chemises, a pantsuit, and a faux leather jacket, it made me think perhaps he was role playing with someone.

I know he did admit to me that seeing women in office attire was something that excited him.

I'm personally hoping it was a prostitute, so he doesn't become attached to anyone.

I think he thinks that I'm to prude to role play or experiment that way.

I'm trying to think of a way to let him know that I'm not.

He is in his MLC, but if I can ride along ( no pun intended ) I want him to try with me, rather someone else.

Now mind you , he is not under the same roof. Right now I only see him when he is hunting, right before...or after the day is done.

He'll be here for Thanksgiving, but I won't have any alone time with him.

I don't want to pursue, but he did respond well to the flirting the last time .

He kissed me on the mouth and kind of twinkled...