Originally Posted By: bustingout
Just goes to show how not talking, mind reading and assumptions can break things... All of which I was very guilty of in the past.

Me too. Looks like you both discovered something you didn’t know about each other.

I know what you are talking about being nervous with his niceness. I found myself thrown off the balance when H did something nice after being silent and rude. I would almost prefer that he would not do that, because I was starting to feel better in my own life. Just keep your eyes open and observe.

Originally Posted By: bustingout
I wasn't looking for his validation at all.

And this is when we get it when we don’t expect it.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state