I find myself feeling bad for XW. After the affair, the lies, the hurtful words and actions, after EVERYTHING she has put me and my sons through, I feel bad for her. I really do. She will not be seeing any of our sons over the Thanksgiving holiday. This makes me feel for her. Why? Why do I feel bad when it was her actions that put us in this mess we are in today?
Am I messed up to?
I know in my heart that I shouldn't feel bad, just because of everything, but I can't help feeling sad for her.
Tad
Tad,
The fact that your heart is communicating these emotions just shows that you DO have a conscience in there and a dollop of compassion to boot. What does this mean? It means you're alive and feeling!! Embrace and celebrate this revelation, dude.
Originally Posted By: tadpole1025
I think about all of the bullsh!t that she has left me with or dumped on me and it just really p!sses me off as she goes on and on with her wonderful life.
What you focus on expands. You're focusing on your pain. Take your hand off that hot stove, darlin'. The stove is for cooking the headless turkey formerly known as "Charlie", not headless Tad.
