WR, Your h should heed the warning "be careful what you ask for". He's going to be one hot butter cup when his lawyer advises him that he owes you child support as well as 50% of home issues. Did you also remind your lawyer about the check he owes you that he got by mistake?
Now, it's going to get very interesting...but that's okay. You can handle anything that comes your way. He's going to find that you can't play out in the street and run away from home and expect the responsibilities not to catch up. Boy, he's going to be really crying the blues now!
Hang on to your seat, buckle up tightly because when he gets notification from his lawyer...he's going to be some kind of hot.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.