Ugh. Lots of anxiety at the moment. I did address the pills, "I noticed that bag with pills on your desk, it's not something I expected to see. Do I need to be worried?"

He says "that baggy had generic lactaid in it." I said, "I know one of the pills was not lactaid, I looked it up." He says, "Oh I forgot, there was a sleeping pill in there. I only tried it once and it didn't work for me. I will throw them away if you want me to. It's really nothing." And he did throw them away.

I said, "Oh, well I am glad it is nothing. I didn't even want to bring it up, but I do care about you. You know that."

He decided this afternoon to go skating in the middle of the day. I asked if there was a possibility his work would call here looking for him (they are in production season, every afternoon there is a new emergency). He said no, it should be fine. He'd be back a little later to do some work from home.

Well, 3:15 we get a call that I let go to voicemail and it is his team lead. They called a phone meeting this afternoon and he didn't call in at 3pm when it was supposed to start. Presumably they sent the email after he left to skate.

I called him and told him I received the voicemail about a meeting at work. He asks me for the call in info. I said the team lead didn't leave the info, just called to see where he was and that they needed his input on something.

I am so annoyed right now. It's bad enough with the throwing money all over the place, now he is taking stupid risks that could compromise his employment.

*is resisting the urge to hit him with a frying pan when he gets home*


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BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."