Willbwell, I find when I start to spin that if I focus on the now it helps center me and calm me. I find that acceptance is the hardest part of this journey. It doesnt mean that we dont care or dont still have our feelings. It means we accept the current reality of our sitchs and live our lives with joy and gratitude for what we have right NOW. Because that is all we know for sure...the now.

How are you doing?

Did you take your walk?

You must be so excited for s20 to come home!

This place isn't where we wanted to be but it is where we are. We can choose how we live in it and move forward from it.

Thinking of you (((( ))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home