TTD180, the bottom line is: it was nice of him to call. Simple as that. No mindreading into anything about the call. He sounded weird, so I asked if he was ok, he replied he was fine. Remember he has a girlfriend, so she probably remembered the date for him.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.