Thought I would update and I have a question for the vets here.

We seem to have taken a dive for the worse. H will no longer answer texts or phone calls. It doesn't even matter what it's about and we have 3 D's. We still have a house that I have been taking care of though he still puts his checks in the bank - though I'm sure he is skimming off the top.

It is making me very angry to the point I'm sliding myself. I have a feeling he has gone back again to OW. I think I'm having trouble with the holidays here.

Now for my question. H's dad has alzheimers and it seems to be difficult on H. He is living there and helping to take care of his dad. Can this prolong mlc? I am wondering because I feel like we have slid all of the way back. And H went back on ad's which I thought would be a good thing. But, we're to the point of NO communication. I feel like he is intentionally not responding to anything.

I don't know. I think I may have reached my limit. It has been at least 4 years for me and maybe I just can't do it anymore.

The good news is a bunch of girls got together last night to plan a girls week. I think that is just what I need.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out