we said "I do", we became As One. We were, and still are, attached. I will not consider myself detached from my W unless and until we are divorced.
I agree. I think that's why I have been advocating D, because I want to be detached and that seem the only way to accomplish this.
It's a bit extreme tho and I wish there was a way to S, not live with each other, and emotionally detach. My H doesn't want to D, but he has managed to detach from me, so he's got it down better than I.
I will always be attached, if I come to realize this maybe I can learn to live with it and move forward without too much more hurt. Don't know how, but it's a nice dream.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
