Should you live your life "as if" he is never coming back? - Absolutely.
Cadet, I have read this over and over and over again, trying to beat it into my head. <sigh>
M:29/H:30 Met:2007 M 3/20/09 SEP 9/4/13 Back in house 10/5/13 H in Replay still DBing my heart out! Babies: Harley AKA Paw-Dobie 10yrs Timmy-Bunny 7yrs Dusty-Bunny 4yrs