It was so nice to talk to someone who isn't telling me to get out and never look back, that I deserve better, or any of that poo poo talk.
Denise was great, and pointed out all my 180's and changes that I have been doing, some I didn't even realize!
Not really feeling good about the relationship itself, but my relationship with me is going really awesome. I'm really starting to like me.
I still have a lot of demons, but I can tell them to shut the eff up!
Goals are still up in the air. I need to re-read DR (my fave of the two books) and get a handle on my goals.
I also read a little bit about goals on BB, using the "what will I be doing/saying/seeing when _____" format.
Its hard though to verbalize or put in writing. I thought I had goals. Nope...just that I want to save my marriage...which is good. but too broad.
Next post will be defined goals.
M:29/H:30 Met:2007 M 3/20/09 SEP 9/4/13 Back in house 10/5/13 H in Replay still DBing my heart out! Babies: Harley AKA Paw-Dobie 10yrs Timmy-Bunny 7yrs Dusty-Bunny 4yrs
