I really needed to hear somebody say babysteps! The problem is that right now I don’t feel like I have done anything at all! I haven’t changed anything! This could easily be the work of time and patience, her taking a second run on the cake, me loosening up and even my good friend and W talking to her. I don’t know so I will follow your advice and give this some serious thoughts over the next days and weeks.
Originally Posted By: AS
Nothing, drop your expectations!
I know I have to let them go and also to stop the mindreading – I am very aware of both points but I am equipped with this strange brain that want’s to analyze and twist everything. I have tried Alka-Seltzer, red wine, shrink, books, coach, meditation, kryptonite, 2x4ing myself, wearing a lead-helmet and then some – but it won’t stop! That said, I believe that I am able not to act on this and I feel I am close to a place where I recognize these behaviors almost immediately and at the same time it doesn’t affect me to the same extent as it used too.
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
