Did you ever connect with another person after ten years of your divorce?
May I ask who you are referring to when you say another person?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Ambivalent, I'm sorry, but my life, when it comes to where I live, where I work and relationships will remain private. Far too many people read not only this forum, but others, and are not required to log in. People tend to forget this and sometimes put TMI out there for people to read and connect the dots (if the readers are smart enough to do so).
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I'm going to e-mail everyone tomorrow for our Thanksgiving time.
Then do some more prep for the dinner, and clean.
Daughter is coming tonight...YAY!
Thinking about the Christmas money talk.
I'd like to meet with him, get a budget and figure out if I'm still going to send the family gifts and bring some catalogs of gift baskets we could send. It is weird. He has four other siblings and we always send things from us.
We also need to decide what budget we are doing for the girls.
Also, like Thanksgiving his brother is always with us to celebrate Christmas day and have dinner. Usually Christmas Eve we would go out and have Chinese.
SOOO...I'm not sure how to do this.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
Ambivalent, You may be able late in the day to have a chat w/him about finances, Christmas and what to do about gifting and making the holiday rounds. If not, tell him that you would like to visit the areas sometime over the weekend and see what he has to say.
Glad your daughter is home safe and sound. It always helps to have another human being in the house to keep you company, as well as prepping for the big day.
Don't over do it today because you'll need to rest up so that you can look you finest tomorrow.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
