Accepting the Confusion - It is what it is Part 5

[tigerlily78]

I sent mine a text that said the same thing back when we had the Facebook catasrophe... "Imagine if you had put even half the time and energy and care and concern into our relationship that you are pouring into this one. How different things might have been." No reply, he was busy trying to smooth things over with ow. :P

A seed planted in a barren field. Maybe one day the rain will make that one sprout too.

I can totally relate Angela to your feelings on this. All the time, money, and effort they pour into these new relationships it is so annoying. When my H and I met we were in college, we ate all our meals on a meal plan at school. I think the first year we were together we went out to eat at an actual restaurant maybe three times total. My H has been out to eat with his OW more than that in a single week. And of course the fact that if I had ever wanted to go out to eat that often for any reason (like I broke both arms), my H would have been so pissy about how wasteful it is.