Accepting the Confusion - It is what it is Part 5

[Pudmuddle]

Your H is like mine in that they tell us what they think we want to hear. Although I have yet to hear him say back ILY. I've never been a big fan of telling someone what they want to hear just to keep them happy. It seems a lot of men do this to avoid the confrontation and keep people happy. They stuff their real feelings down. How awful to live that way, huh?

I keep thinking about the effort that goes into Floormops too. I even had told him that 'if you had put that kind of effort into us...' well you get the idea. We need to not allow insecure women to occupy our headspace. Remember, and I know you know this, she is insecure and dealing with an insecure man,...Let the OWs have that! We don't want that person.

I think a punching bag would be an excellent idea! I used to take kickboxing and it was so nice to punch the bag and imagine someone's face on the bag... >:)