I think there are conflicting sites... this one stresses keeping the lines open and while detaching remaining available. Another site suggests the opposite, going completely dark and having absolutely no contact, no thoughts, nothing to do with the WAS until the fog clears and the get rid of the AP. It's to heal and move on and let go. Because these two sites conflict each other it's probably a good idea to choose one to follow and one to just read.. otherwise you will be all over the place and confuse the terms such as the 180 and Plan B, which is what the other site calls their suggestion. 180 means to do the opposite. Do not beg, reason etc, do not discuss the issue if they aren't ready etc.. . where Plan B is going deeply dark sometimes for good. One keeps the door open to reconciling the other prepares you to move on with the door firmly closed tight.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
