She has been talking to me about what she's looking at on her phone as well. It's almost like she wants to reassure me she's not cheating. I have let that one go. I gave up on stopping that weeks ago. She's gotten so into watching sports with us now it's like she's trying to reconnect.
Keep your expectations at zero my friend. The trying to connect you feel? Likely very real, but it's not impossible that it'll be temporary. Kind of like a new year's diet - best of intentions but fizzles about the month of January
By keeping your expectations at zero, I think you'll be able to handle the ups and downs. I do believe she wants to reconnect, J. I also believe she may not know how. This is all new ground for you both. One thing I do know - the changes you've made for you? Good on ya!
Enjoy the good times, my friend. Life is truly short on this spinning rock.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
