I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

She also mentioned last night that she doesnt ever want to get divorced. That she would stay married for the rest of her life and not care, it's just a piece of paper to her. I said but yeah what about moving on with your life? She told me that she has no interest in meeting anyone new and the she has no plans to move on with anything.

She is upset about breaking up the family, she mentioned that. I just told her she shouldnt worry about that and that things would work out fine. She is constantly telling me that she doesnt want me to be alone. I told her not to wory about me at all, just worry about herself. I feel like these fears are her own, but she tries to project them onto me.

She mentioned last night when we spoke that we haven't even been talking lately, and she is curious as to what I am up to. Should I just keep her guessing, and not share much into with her? She mentioned that she wanted to start talking again. I don't know how I feel about that. Every time we talk the conversation goes where I don't want it to go. I feel like I'm not ready.

I can see that she truly is confused. I want her to be able to make this decision on her own. If we talk it will lead to more of me saying what can change, and that things can work. Part of me feels like she needs to hear that stuff from me. But I also know that it isnt the right thing to do.