She and I eventually talked that night on the phone and I was calm, but firm about the situation. I told her that if she wanted the children to stay at her place, then she knew what needed to be done. She tried to accuse me of bringing children into our problems, which I had inadvertently done in the past, but was not doing so in this situation. I told her that I felt that as parents, it was our responsibility to provide an environment in which our children felt comfortable and that that was not happening at her place. I said that I felt there was no reason for this guy to be at her place when we now had the game and system for the game they were playing. I said I knew she would be mad at me for this, but that I didn't care as I was only trying to do what I felt was best for our children. Her break for her class was ending and she had to go. Children did not spend the night that night, but she asked me to bring them early the next morning, stating she was still mad.


M:35 W:31
S: 9 D: 5
M: 11.5 yrs
BD: 5/13
W moved out: 7/13