After confronting her a 2nd time about her friend being there, with another angry response telling me that we had already discussed this and that he was just a friend, I decided to just drop it. I wasn't happy with it, but I didn't want it to keep being a source of contention. In trying to better myself, that was something the old me would do and I'm trying to be a better version of me. Then, the complaints started coming from my children that they didn't like this guy and that they were uncomfortable with him there. Things finally came to a head a couple of weeks ago when both children told me that they didn't want to spend the night at her place on the weekend because this guy was there.
M:35 W:31 S: 9 D: 5 M: 11.5 yrs BD: 5/13 W moved out: 7/13