Thanks for the comments, everyone. In the months that have followed since she moved out, I've done my best to live my life for me and my children. I've tried my best to not initiate contact with her unless it is necessary and I've not initiated conversations about our relationship. More and more, she has been texting me that she misses the kids. What I want to say is that she knows what the solution to that is, but I am cordial and simply say that I can understand. This year has provided me with opportunities to connect with my children and I've felt my love for them grow in ways I didn't know possible.


M:35 W:31
S: 9 D: 5
M: 11.5 yrs
BD: 5/13
W moved out: 7/13