[quote=RosaLinda]My sweet friend, that is a beautiful hymn. Thank you for sharing.
You and I have gone round and round about detaching, havent we? LOL! I have told you that it doesnt mean you do not care, it doesnt mean you do not love him. It means the opposite of that. It means that you love him so very much. So much so that you are going to allow him to walk his journey.
It does not mean to be nasty. It does not mean to be angry. It means that no matter what happens, let it be well with your soul.
Of course you hate to see him so unhappy and depressed. You love him so. As I have said, lovingly letting him go allows him the opportunity to look within.
The thing is that allowing all of this to bother you, to weigh you down, to cause you sadness, isnt going to change anything but you. It isnt going to help him.
Worrying has no affect on the outcome. But, letting go, moving forward, and detaching can.
You are not a failure in any way, dear Rosa.
I just want you to see that allowing this to affect you to the extent it does is not good for you, nor is it good for the situation.
It is your choice if you want to continue to stay attached completely. I am just not sure it serves you well. It serves no purpose but to upset you and keep you stuck.
Take a leap of faith, my friend. Trust in Him. Believe in you.
