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Sorry you're having a bad day K. It really s**ks when that happens.

Have you considered getting a written agreement on visitation and support? When my H decided that our "trial separation" was going to become a permanent separation we had an agreement prepared which specifies custody, visitation and child support amongst other things. Of course it sounds like my H is being much more amicable than yours, but some sort of agreement would give you some protection. Our agreement specifies that I have sole custody, with H having unlimited visitation provided 24 hours notice is given. I've only once had to turn down a request and that was because my son was already committed to attending an Army Cadet exercise.

Stay strong!