I'm sorry your H is being a total @ss to you. Ugh, this is the part of things I hate, when it starts getting so ugly. Why do people have to do this...I'm sorry Rose. I think job gave you some great advice. I think you gave your S some great advice for boundaries. How terrible your H has to use him that way. Geez, I just don't get it.
Sounds like you will have a great time at the awards party, please focus on you having fun and not this mess. We are all here for you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.