Bill, from knowing more about your sitch you are definitely in worse sitch than me and my heart truly goes out to you. I think you should go with what makes you happy on it. Go with what's in your heart. so the doctor is tomorrow. i wish you luck on that. I can't remember is she still at home. I think right now you just need to be there for support whenever she needs it as I can only imagine how messed up she must be in the head right now. I wish I could give better advice, and i really do feel for you in your sitch.