Look what the cat dragged in! (TL)

[tigerlily78]

Well, I think my finger looks a little better. H thinks it looks the same. He gave me permission to go get an x-ray if I want to "even though he doesn't think its broken." I said I don't want to waste the money on it, especially since we have an outstanding balance left of $90 to pay for an x-ray our son had. If they put it in a cast it will just be harder for me to do things anyways, I'd rather get by with the splint.

Must be my lucky day, H got tied up dealing with "emergencies" while working from home this afternoon so I got to go grocery shopping WITH the debit card and by MYSELF. :P

He tells me "just get a little bit of stuff, whatever you need for the next few days and Thanksgiving, don't spend a lot money, and do it as quick as you can." (Impossible dream much?)

Well, I went quick but I did spend $185. He seemed exasperated by this when I handed him the receipt and the debit card back. I explained that I can't "quickly" decide which stuff to get and not get and which meals it goes in and what days, since I organize my list by AISLES (this does make me more speedy). I also explained very politely that our last shopping trip was also a very fast trip meant only for a few days, we were out of A LOT of stuff, add Thanksgiving into the mix and it seems like a lot of money to someone who doesn't routinely go shopping for food... but the amount was actually pretty reasonable.

So since he was being kind of a crab about it, I decided after he left tonight that I would use phone banking to see how much he has spent recently on going out with OW. As far as I can tell from Nov 12 through Nov 25th he has spent just shy of $250 on eating out for him and presumably her. GRRRR.

So, I know it is probably better for me to pretend like I don't know this. I am going to just file the information away for now, but really, what a selfish jerk. I kind of bet he doesn't even have a freakin clue how much money he has wasted eating out, because he won't bother to look, it doesn't matter as much as holding up a magnifying lense to everything I do. >:(

I am pretty sure he has taken out at least $60 in cash too on top of that. And I have no way of knowing how much he has spent out of his PayPal account.

Then, after he left tonight and presumably arrived at his destination he calls me to ask if I took out cash at the grocery store. I very calmly and nicely explained that I didn't. (He should have been able to see this on the grocery receipt I handed over to him, but I guess he wasn't thinking about it). So I was actually very reasonable and responsible and skipped buying several things on my list since I know he might not "approve" of those expenses, and then he turns around and feels the need to ask if I took out cash? Oh what a jerky move.

I even bothered to make him some toast as a snack before he left, because I am nice and also don't want him to go spend $8 on a crappy dinner just because he is pressed for time.

Oh I am so annoyed right now. Doesn't OW know how to cook ANYTHING? If I had ever wanted to eat out this much anytime in our R, my H would have had a conniption about it.