Thank you, Mustardseed. You give me a very good point, which I almost forgot from DB book I read. I'm confused about not controling him and setting boundries. Right now he comes and leaves as much as he wants; he claimed that's his house as well and he has the right. He also wants to devide the timeshare of taking care of kids, i.e. 40-60, or 50-50... I don't know it is a good way to set boundries. But It is really hard for me to see my kids only 4 days a week, and let them sleep in an apartment which is far from their school and friends. If I want my kids to stay in our house every day, what kind of boundries work for both of us?
thank you!
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013
