I can see why she didn't want to respond. You made it all about you in the email. This isn't about what YOU understand and what YOU want and what YOU will pray for. You have to make the emphasis on them.
By starting off by saying that her mom wants a D because of your actions is wrong. You should have just started out with the apology.
How old was your SD when you M'd?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.