H continues to push the boundaries. He calls to discuss the kids but then brings up other stuff. Today, after talking about the kids, e asked a question about a bag I own and if I could send links to bags I like to buy for two people who work for him. I did not respond because one of the kids started crying and I had to get off the phone. Do I just ignore him ans what until he brings it up again or do I email him and say that i can't do it? I always did this kind of stuff in our M. Bit he does not want that. Plus all I can think about is that he will buy OW (since he also works with her). It is hard enforcing boundaries while trying to remain a friendly neighbor and not seeem mean or spiteful. Advice??