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four years. Do what you like I like the idea of something more personal, from the heart..




No.

The book I am giving ex-b is from the heart, but it's something I know he'd buy for himself (if he knew the book existed). It is something that HE will appreciate.

When you are talking "from the heart", you are talking in more of an emotional sense. You don't want to give her something YOU want to give her but something she will appreciate. There is a huge difference.