Thanks for everyones input. It still amazes me how similar all the stories are. The words, actions, everything..for humans to be do different they sure are the same. For me it makes my brain think a lot more than I ever intended. I listen, I watch, I make decisions based on the prior. Some are right, some are wrong, I just learn from them. I know I will always love this woman and always be there for my children. Time will tell, hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving