Thanks Reaching, that means a lot. Yeah, I'm sure "if" he comes, it will freak him out too. :}
But as for the Love Bank, you are exactly right. I will get to watch and listen, as my oldest monopolizes the conversation! I will practice DR'ing on her as well.
I am planning on having some good wine and just letting go. We will supposedly play some board game that my youngest will bring.
This will be a 180, and something that may add to the day. Never know with the oldest present! Complicated.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay