Originally Posted By: RockJC
It almost sounds like she just wants to be difficult for the sake of being difficult.


This is the reality of the situation W is being difficult.

We both went to the bank and arranged a loan for £45k for me to purchase her equity,£45K which was stretching me to the limit but I was gonna give it a go. Then she wanted £200/mth CS well I can't afford that I said we'll both have houses so we should share custody, but she wasn't having that she wanted regular money from me on top of £45k.

So I said enoughs enough we'll have to sell. I wanted to borrow the smaller amount but this is linked to the mortgage and needs W to co sign and she won't do that.

She can't afford to keep the house but she doesn't want me to have it that's her mentality.

So as you say I'm weighing up the pros and cons and seeing what my options are.

Still don't have the answers yet.

Lanzo