W came home angry at one point and didn't want to be in the same room as me. I'm still not sure why.
It happens, WAS's are going through a lot of turmoil and sometimes that'll manifest itself in nasty behavior that seemingly has no cause.
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She started packing up the kids stuff to leave the house. I called the cops.
Well you can't undo that, but you can change your future behavior. There are some great tips in DR about how to modify your own behavior to change your W's response. YOU have the power to stop fights before they start. It takes 2 to fight, but it only takes 1 to defuse the sitch.
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We each get to spend ~1/2 the time at the house with the kids.
That's unusual. I don't see how that could work after D. Where are each of you living when not at the house?
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She says things could be going great right now if not for the divorce. I agree and say things could be great...
Who knows, it may be that the D is underway, that it removed the pressure from her and makes her feel better about things. Just keep giving her time and space.
