Question for everyone.

H has been here about a week. At first things were uncomfortable and there were a couple of disagreements, but everything has settled down.

He has talked a lot and mainly says he doesn't want to be married and doesn't want to be a "husband" but wants me in his life and needs me to be his friend. I just replied that if we went our separate ways that I couldn't make any promises about how I might feel afterwards.

My question - would it be pursuing to leave a thank you note in his suitcase before he leaves thanking him in some way for "visiting?" and saying I enjoyed having him here?

Thanks much.

2T2T


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013