2. Meander into hypothetical territory Truth be told, most people’s daily lives aren’t rife with excitement, so dwelling on reality doesn’t always make for the most scintillating conversation. It may behoove you to venture into “What if…?” territory with comments, like “I sometimes wonder what I’d do with my life if I won the lottery. What do you think you would do?” or “If you had to find a new profession, what would it be?” Conversation like this gets at someone’s dreams and desires, and even if these things will never come to pass, you’ll get to know what makes your date tick. “You can make it a game,” says Puhn. “Pick a group of people nearby and ask, ‘What do you think is going on with them?’ Are they friends from work? Reuniting sorority sisters? The makings of a new five-girl pop band?” As you bounce the possibilities off each other, you’ll get some playful banter rolling in no time, which will help connect you two
I saw this somewhere^^^^. Thought it was interesting topic to discuss/do on a date.
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