Yes, I do feel conflicted. One day I want to divorce. The next day I don't want to. I know my wife resents me for the way I reacted to the affair, and it pushed her further into the arms of the OM.
I will commit to trying to save the marriage. I'm going to try to do what Accuray suggests. Have no expectations, stop nagging my WW, and DB. I have both books now.I just hope I have the patience to wait for her.
So should I tell her I'm going to stop the Divorce proceedings? What should I tell her, if anything?