Ambivalent, My thoughts on why he should be invited to Thanksgiving dinner. You are one of the very lucky ones that your h is still doing some things for you. Your h has been very pleasant and wouldn't you rather have him there and sharing in the festivities and when the day is done, go home w/some very pleasant and fond memories to think about later? At least if he's there, you know that he won't be spending it alone or w/the OP.
You've be able to determine whether or not you want him around for Christmas or not after this holiday visit. Then again, he may opt to spend that one elsewhere...it all depends on how comfortable he is around the family on Thursday.
When I see that the MLCer is doing nice things for the spouse or family, I tend to say offer up an invitation and if he accepts, fine and if he doesn't, it's his loss. Thursday is still a few days away and he may very well change his mind...time will tell.
As for his window issue, he can go probably go to a local glass repair shop or an automotive shop and they'll replace the motor (if they are electric windows) for him. It could also be that the window has gotten off track and that should be an easy fix.
It's time for your to turn your focus back on to you and what you need to do to get ready for the big "T" Day. Hopefully the nasty weather will be out of here Wednesday afternoon.
BTW, if you feel that my postings are negative and you aren't happy w/them, please tell me and I will be more than happy to cease posting to you. I do not want to impose on anyone when it comes to their journey through Hades.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
