Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Here's an abbreviated list of reminders I have kept in my wallet for a long time:
  • Be an honorable man.
  • Be respectful.
  • Be true to yourself.
  • Be bold.
  • Be a leader.
  • Patiently endurance.
  • Quiet confidence. Strength.
  • NEVER lose your cool.
  • Actions >>>>>> words.
  • It is never the wrong time to do the right thing.
  • A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits.
  • "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." - MLK Jr.

Endure well. Expect this to take a while and expect the coming emotional storms. The better prepared you are, the better chance you have at reacting in a manner that coalesces with your long term goals.

Endure well!

-PM


PM, love the cliff notes version! Thanks for sharing.

Stay strong Fight4! Some pain in the growth but in the end I am sure it will all be worth the effort.


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M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork