Intresting question - I also do not know what to do - Since C has gone out of her way to let me know that she can not say ILY and does not feel she can commit to "US". Just wants to go one day at a time. That attitude has litterly killed any feelings I had for V-Day.
Even though she did call the other night and say ILY and knows that she has a problem saying it and said she is working on it, to me it is "too little - too late" to get me back in the mood to enjoy V-Day.
Also, last year C completly ruined V-Day by waiting til we got to the Restaurant to start harping on the fact that we needed to work on our R. So I still have bad feelings about V-day from that too.
I do not have a problem with being w/ C on V-Day but I do not want to go out and "Celebrate" it. So I will follow this thread for any suggestions too.
