Hi Pud. Thanks for checking in on me. I have known who the OW is since the beginning. This was just the first time that I heard about her flirting with him in public (in front of my best friend). My BF said that my H did not respond and ignored OW's advances, but if she was comfortable doing it in public I can only imagine what goes on behind closed doors
I hate this stuff too. The OW is a total mess. She is also married with children. Her H is in federal prison. She is an alcoholic. She has no money, a million creditors after her. My H likes that she is carefree and the life of the party. However, my H's head would explode if I acted like she did - openly flirting with other men. Such a double standard. Oever the past two year, my self esteem definitely took a hit considering that my H would prefer to be with her than with me. Boo
However, I have come to learn that my H's opinion of me and OW is not accurate. I would never want to swap places with OW. While I hate this process, I have come SOOOO far. If you remove the S and the A, I am a much happier person. I appreciate my life and the things in it. I am proud of the person that I am. Yes, I was not the perfect wife. But know I realize the things that I need to work on for myself. It will be H's loss if he does not come back.
