Portia I can only imagine the wave of emotions you are going through. I think you did amazingly well. I would have been so nervous.

This being nice for an ulterior motive does make me wonder ... Why? They do what they want anyway so why try and be nice in the first place. I'm sure you have a lot of processing to do following the conversation. Keep posting.

Busting

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home