Thank you for the reassurance that the distrust is part of the script and not necessarily because of something I have done. It's so easy to second guess yourself and try to analyze the "why."
You are right, I need to just embrace the "good roommate" role as best I can. It just Svcks. Let OW be the source of his stress. :P
Finger is looking a little better today. Still hurts like the dickens when I do the wrong things, but at least the swelling has gone down some.
I was feeling sorry for myself because I skipped doing the dishes last night and that violates one of my 180s. H seemed to be in such a hurry this morning though I doubt he noticed. I asked him as he came through the bedroom if he was going to be around today, he got exasperated and said, "I'm going to work today." At least that is a break in the pattern... he took PTO the last two Mondays and spent them with OW. Today he was clearly running very late to come and get ready for work, didn't take time for a shower. Hope he had one at ow's, otherwise I know that too will make him in a bad mood.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."